Anonymous asked: To start things off, I have two best friends, Alisa & Adalys and we are a trio. But it seems like Adalys doesn't wanna be apart of us anymore. Since the beginning of 2012 she has not put her share in trying to talk to us and hanging out with us like we do. She never calls, she never decides to ask when to hang out. She has a boyfriend now, and it seems to me she's giving him more attention. Legit, in school she will walk right past us and say nothing. What do I do? Do I bother with her? Help.

Some relationships have a powerful bond where that bond is unbreakable no matter what happens. Friends come and go. It’s how life is. There is no official definition of life yet, just like love, but life is full of mysterious, unexplainable, and unreasonable events. Since you call yourselves a trio, it sounds like you guys are really close friends. Some friends simply just find something better to do in life and leave behind what they need to sacrifice. Your friend, Adalys, could’ve fallen in love with her boyfriend and she can simply just be giving him more attention. Relationships are new things to young people like yourselves. Remember that a friend knows the things that you have done and a BEST friend has experienced it with you. You can either accept that she can possibly be gone as a friend or you can try to talk to her and see what’s going on. There can be an infinite number of explanations. Her boyfriend can be asking her to give more attention to him, she could have just voluntarily given herself to him, etc. Don’t ever be those kinds of people who just jump into conclusions. Those kinds of people usually end things badly because they start negative things without even knowing the beginning. Don’t lose hope in your friend. I’m sure she has a good excuse. Best of luck!

-Kevin

Anonymous asked: Hi, my names Sophie. Well, I'm really young but I do believe that I've somewhat fallen in love.Well, I dated this boy named Jason for 6 months, and he was like my best friend. On March 26th we both decided to go our separate ways because of the fighting. I can not seem to get over him, it's ridiculous. He wants to be "Friends with Benefits," but that's not going to happen, I just need to somehow cope with this heartbreak, 'cause I think, not sure, he is already talking to another girl. It hurts

Kevin here filling in for Jackie. I’m gonna tell you this from a guy’s point of view. Age is but a number. The amount of knowledge and experience that you’ve received from these experiences is what makes people wiser. Yes, it’s true that there aren’t a lot of guys out there for us that’ll make us happy, but in the other hand, there are guys who do care. He is only one guy that can possibly be the many that you date in the future for you to experience more. There are going to be guys who just want a sex-buddy and there are going to be guys who are just normal. The types of guys can list on endlessly. Coping with something like this would be hard, but it’ll take time. Just like how we can’t accept the fact that a family member died, that would also take a large amount of time for us to get used to. Don’t be so hurt because of one guy. If you guys went your own separate ways, then that means that you guys weren’t compatible for each other and if he just wanted you as a “Friends with Benefits” person, then he obviously wasn’t compatible with you. Some people just want to have sex, some people just want a relationship, or some people simply want a relationship with sex in it. Be patient. Don’t breakdown because of this one experience. If this is your reaction from this, then you best be ready for more to come. Please have faith and good luck.

-Kevin

Anonymous asked: i really miss my ex bf. he's like the only person who understands everything i go through. I've never met anyone like him. he's just so different on every level and i really want him back. its been 3 months since we broke up and he's still on m Skype and stuff but e ended bad. he broke up with me. what do i do? :(

A friendly message or text never hurt anyone. My advice would be to get a hold of him somehow. And if he answers, tell him how you feel. It’s ok if he doesn’t answer back right away. You just pour your heart out, but don’t pour it out so much where you’d sound desperate. Tell him how he made you feel and how he’s the only person who can understand everything you go through and that you really miss him. Do NOT ask to get back together with him. Instead, just simply ask if you two can hang out again. Take it slow. Start off as friends again, then if fate wants you two to be together, it’ll happen. See how life with him feels by just being friends. Maybe you’ll see a side of him you’ve never seen before. And if everything goes well, he’ll realize how much of a fool he was for breaking it off with you and that he really misses you too. I hope everything goes well. I wish you the best of luck.

xox Jackie

Anonymous asked: my parents disapproves of my current boyfriend, i do care what my parents' opinions are in my relationship but my mom, you can never satisfiy her. she's so judgemental and only goes for the looks and my dad just goes with whatever my mom says. they think he's a bad person, but he's not a bad person at all he just looks like it but he's not. i love him so much, but we barely even get to see each other and it sucks! i know he's sad about not being able to see me and it hurts. what do i do ?

I just finished watching a drama with a story that’s very similar to yours! Off topic sorry lol. Your best bet is to sit with your parents, or just your mom, and try to explain to them that your boyfriend is actually a really sweet and respectful person. I know its a bit cliche, but you should tell her she shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. I highly suggest you bring your boyfriend over, so that you, him, and your parents can all sit calmly and they can ask him any questions they want. If your boyfriend is rude to them, there’s probably nothing you can do other than try to hide your relationship. BUT, if he’s very respectful and calls them Mr Blank & Mrs Blank and stuff and he tells them that he really really loves and cares for their daughter and that he promises to always treat you with respect and treat you like a princess, there’s not a 100% chance they’ll say yes, but its a good chance they might. If you two really love each other that much, you’d be brave enough to do this. If the outcome isn’t what you expected it to be, don’t give up. Keep on trying. Eventually your parents will realize the love you two have for each other. I wish the best of luck.

xox Jackie

caitlinmk5 asked: Jackie, where can I find a pair of shorts similar to the white shorts you recently just posted?

A bunch of different places! The exact type of shorts might be hard to find because it looks like she just took some white jeans and cut them into shorts. You can always just buy a pair of white shorts and cut then ends, then throw them in the washer and dryer to make the ends frilled. You can find white shorts anywhere! Like

• Target
• Hollister
• A&F
• Old Navy

Anywhere! Hope this helps :)

Anonymous asked: what are some good websites to buy cute clothes that arent so expensive? "/

These are my 2 favorite cheap websites :) all the others are too expensive ;/

• http://www.tobi.com/
• http://www.forever21.com/Product/Main.aspx?br=f21

Anonymous asked: what's a good eyeliner to use? i like to draw cat eyes!

I use 2 liquid liners. One is a brush by NYC & the other is a felt tip called Line Stiletto by Maybelline. I really like the Maybelline one but I can’t find it anymore! I think they discontinued it :( If you like to draw cat eyes, I’d go for only a felt tip and make sure it has a pointy tip. I can’t recommend any at the moment unfortunately cus I’ve been trying to find a pointy felt tip myself for like, ever D; I thinkkk MAC or Lancome might have them though. They’re a bit pricey buuut I don’t think you’ll find em at your local CVS or Target cus I haven’t had much luck! Buuut if you do find one there, lemme know! :) Good luck!<3

Anonymous asked: So i bought a jacket, and i tried it on at forever21, but when i wore it at home, it seemed short for my body, and i cant return it anymore cause i took the tag off "( what can i do so it wont seem short?

Pair it with anything high-waisted! :)

• high-waisted shorts
• high-waisted skirt
• high-waisted jeans

Anonymous asked: Jackie! what hairstyles can i do besides simply pinning my bangs back?

There are sooo many things!

• waterfall braid
• bohemian twist
• dutch braid
• curly
• wavy

I really like Nee’s hairstyles :)
http://www.youtube.com/user/bebexo

chandlerclara asked: jackie! okay so im going to a kid cudi concert this sunday and i dont know what to wear! cause i wanna look cute but a but urban ya know. today i bought these black high waisted jean shorts that are a bit destroyed like ripped, super cute! i wanna wear those with maybe like a flowy tank or crop top. what do you think would work?

I would go with a crop top because high waisted shorts when paired with a top that covers the high waisted part, makes the body seem larger than it really is. (trust me, I learned from experience ;/). When you wear a crop top with high waisted shorts, you can actually see the shorts and the shape it gives your body. Bottom line: Crop tops are the way to go! I hope you have lots and lots of fun & be safe!!! :)